Okay, I admit it… I’m scared of success.
I want the riches and fame, without all of that hard work, and when it is convenient to me.
I never want to be uncomfortable.
Yeah, I’m realizing that this ain’t reality.
Astrophysicist Neil deGrasse Tyson points out very well that the Earth is not some great haven of life… that the universe is trying to kill us, every opportunity it gets.
I mean, 98% of of the species that existed are now extinct. Every hundred million years or so, a giant rock hits our planet, burning all of the forests overnight and plunging the surface into darkness. Even us humans, with our huge brains, tools, and opposable thumbs aren’t safe… Put the average person out in the wilderness naked, and chances are they’ll be dead in a few hours, much less survive the week. (Even Bear Grills never goes out alone and often sleeps in hotels, and Les Stroud takes tools, does intensive surveys, and makes certain he’s well prepared before spending a week in the wild.)
To just survive, we need only to find a hole to climb in, a source of food, and a source of water… and it would be quite comfortable, if not boring. To really thrive, though, we need to push past our comfort. I mean, be really willing to get really uncomfortable, and possibly even fail.
Except… if we’re willing to put up with more discomfort than anyone else, we can’t fail… because failure only comes from giving up.
Backing Up
Okay, re-reading that first part, I’m going to have to define some terms.
Mainly, what is success?
Well, success is whatever we define it to be. Nobody else can say what our personal success is.
So, let me sit and think for a moment. This is an exercise I should have done a long time ago.
What is success? What do I want to do in life?
Well, I’ve had 3 goals before… Be a teacher, be a business owner, and contribute to an object that goes into space.
I’ve been a teacher, so let me mark a big bold line through that one. I’ll still continue to teach, where I can, because I love the learning involved, but I won’t do it formally any more.
A business owner… Interesting… What would the business be?
And contributing to an object that goes into space. Boy, I hope I don’t do that posthumously, by settling on writing in my will to have some of my ashes sent to space.
So… those are my two life-long goals.
I think it’s time to start working on them.
Now, to define success. (I can only fail if I stop trying, so failure isn’t an option.)
Success, to me, is to meet my two goals in specific ways. Namely, contribute something useful to an object that goes into space. Since my specialization is in software development, I can write a program. Perhaps an auto-navigation algorithm. This way, ground control can set up best-case-scenario way-points, launch the probe, and the probe will do its best to hit those targets on time, at speed, and as accurately as possible, without ground control needing to send engine thrust sequences that are time consuming to calculate, and potentially crippling to the probe, due to the time it takes for the signals to reach, and the possibility of the probe not receiving a key part of the signal.
That’s just an example, though. I don’t have to write a program to steer spaceships, I could create a science instrument, or even just do the welding on the probe’s frame.
Why space? Well, like I said above, with the help of Neil deGrasse Tyson… the universe is trying to kill us. The more planets we can populate, the longer our species can survive.
For my second goal, to create a business:
The goal here is to make it successful, but not just somewhat so… To make it a positive influence in the world, and to keep my family life intact as well.
I know, many business experts believe that these goals are mutually exclusive. After all, a successful business is one which serves itself first, creating the most profit possible. And, to start a successful business, you have to put the rest of your life on hold for several years.
I’m not one to say that experts are wrong, nor do I have an ego to think that I’m so different from everyone else that I can go against the experts.
However, I have three things that most people don’t have. Business owners have the first two in spades, but the third is more rare still:
- Patience
- Willingness to get uncomfortable
- Low start-up costs.
In fact, I have no start-up costs, until I’m ready to sell a product.
Now, that doesn’t mean that if I created a product tomorrow, that I’d be able to sell it the next day… I still need to advertise and create a customer base first, but I already have all of the physical equipment I need, and all of the knowledge required.
What type of product will I sell?
Why, software, of course.
Very specific software.
Things like time management, and data organization.
Some will be marketed toward creative individuals. Some will be marketed toward small business.
Yes, I have prototypes of these programs already. No, I won’t go into details yet.
How will this make the world a better place? Well, it won’t, directly. However, donating a good chunk of my sales to a specific meta-charity will go a long ways.
How will I keep my family life intact? Reserving time in the day to spend with my wife; reserving a day to spend extensive time with her. Reserving other time to keep the household in order.
I’m patient… I’m in a place, financially, where I can work on these projects slowly, and these projects wouldn’t benefit from being released early. I’m also willing to get uncomfortable; to spend time on these projects, when I would rather be playing games or doing something else. These are both required for any business to be successful, but with no start-up costs and very low maintenance costs, it doesn’t matter if I could make a living at this right away… I’ll consider the business successful when I can start hiring employees and start having a need for a physical location, when I can pay for all of that, and live off of my own salary, while maintaining good donations to a certain meta-charity.
Lofty goals… Hard to reach… but then, others have gone before me, and the only way I can fail is if I stop trying.